You will always here how you should give,give,give and give in order to receive. Well sometimes it feels like all you do is give and get nothing in return. Should you then stop and think about yourself for a while? Give to yourself!!
Give yourself the freedom not to be prisoner of your feelings.. Just aknowledge them and then let them just slide away. Because as long as you let your emotions get the most of you, by hanging on to good (or bad) feelings, that long you are prisoned by them.
I talk now mainly about feelings you feel whilst in falling in love. You have that special someone in your life, and you see the world differently, everything is beatiful when that special one is with you, calls you, mails you,etc. Your life seems easier and sky looks blue no matter what.. Know what I'm talking?
Now, STOP! Think about it! Make yourself aware how much you are giving power to this other person through your feelings?
Don't get me wrong, ofcourse you should enjoy about the happy feelings you are going through,but you should never be attached to these feelings. YOU are NOT the same as your toughts!
By attaching yourself to the emotions you are letting someone else to deside how you feel. I mean situation where the special one turns his back on you, treats you badly. Then you feel like your world comes trumbling down. But in reality it's you that is doing it. Nobody can be happy or sad for you. You decide how you feel. Darkness can never touch light if the light doesn't ask for it.
So be aware of your emotions, feel them, but let them go. Give yourself the gift of letting go, take the best of everything and be happy.
Think about that. It brings you freedom and inner peace. You are not the same as your feelings. Feelings come and go, you stay. ;)
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